Poly Musings
Jul. 26th, 2007 03:33 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
foxgrrl[I don't have a lot of time, so I'll keep this brief.]
Recently, several friends of mine [probably reading this now], and I, have been trying to figure out if we are officially dating or not. I'm currently in a relationship with Nyah [![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
whimsywanderer], and I don't want to leave her, but society has taught me from birth to be insanely devoted to your only partner. And that
Recently, several friends of mine [probably reading this now], and I, have been trying to figure out if we are officially dating or not. I'm currently in a relationship with Nyah [
whimsywanderer], and I don't want to leave her, but society has taught me from birth to be insanely devoted to your only partner. And that cheatingon your partner is the more horribly unimaginable crime ever — grounds for murder and divorce. Some of the other people involved are also in their own open/poly relationships, so it's ok for them to date me… But I still fear that I'm comiting some horrible crime against their other partners.
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Date: 2007-07-27 12:57 am (UTC)People already beat me to all of the things I was going to say with regard to this entry, so I'll just revisit a few things: Don't lie, don't lie, don't lie. Don't hide, don't sneak.
Friends are friends, and sex is just a fun thing to do with friends. Everything else is separate. Social arrangements and social partnerships should not be artificially combined with sex.
Enjoy yourself freely, within reason.
-Kysh